Sunday, December 12, 2010

Closeness: 'Human-way'

Define closeness, how to measure the closeness of two beings. Options galore, I am struggling to choose the appropriate:

“Closeness is a common trait shared by two or more living beings, which define the sensitivity of their association. Two close beings are bound to remain close forever and ever"

Are two beings close:

• If they meet frequently?

• If they belong to same culture?

• If they converse in a common language amidst a group of others?

• If they share a thread with one others family?

• If they share thoughts, with keenness to learn about each other?

• Is it a measure of the depth of thoughts, which binds the two minds?

• If they like to share their life with rarely seen vigour?

• If each one believes they have the power to define the other, in their absence?

• If each one believes they can stand up for the sake of others in their absence?

• If the name of other, by itself ignites sparks within themselves

The list could be infinite....!!!

“Any human action involving a co-being is a complex analogy, right to be defined them together only...”

“Some relations see light, not because they traversed through a dark tunnel, but it never saw the other side, on the contrary, some relations wade themselves through the challenges strewn through their journey, not with the hope to see light, but with desire to travel together In pursuit of light”

Each would want other to burn themselves to lighten other’s path; they end up sharing the burden equally

The pursuit of that light is a journey, the intensity may vary never would they doubt one another’s effort to energize it

I wish all sincere “close” relationships never end in a light-house; they shall see only enough light to guide them “In Pursuit of the elusive light”